How It Works
Obedify helps you design rituals, assign roles, and track progress with gentle automation. Join, invite, and connect — it's private by design.
Sign up & invite
Create a private space and invite your partner(s). Control privacy at every step.
Set rituals & rules
Define recurring rituals, permissions, and tasks with gentle reminders and history.
Build connection
Track progress, celebrate wins, and maintain intimacy through shared structure.
Core Features
Everything you need to create structure, preserve privacy, and deepen connection.
Dynamic Dashboard
Personalized views, progress tracking, and a calm single place for your dynamic.
Rules & Rituals
Flexible rule sets and rituals with progress history and optional reminders.
Secure Messaging
Private conversations with optional redaction and secure storage.
AI Assistants
Private, on-device style helpers to suggest rituals, aftercare, and prompts.
Connection Builder
Tools to explore compatibility and celebrate progress together.
Privacy & Security
Obedify is designed to be private by default. We never sell your data and every control is designed so you decide what to share.
- End-to-end posture: Sensitive messages and personal rituals are encrypted at rest.
- No ads: We don't monetize your data — product decisions are shaped by users, not advertisers.
- Role-based access: Fine-grained controls let you manage permissions and shared data.
Transparent policies, encryption, and a tiny, focused product team who live the lifestyle.